Most Marriages Don’t Fall Apart.
They Fade.... Busy schedules. Growing kids. Long years together. Distance doesn’t start with a fight — it starts when “we’re fine” becomes the default.
Why “We’re Fine” Is the Most Dangerous Phase of Marriage
A blunt, no-therapy-speak guide for couples who aren’t in crisis —
but don’t want to wake up one day feeling like roommates.
Written for long-term marriages navigating midlife, kids growing up, and the shift into the empty-nest years.
🧠 WHO THIS IS FOR
This guide is for you if:
You’re married, busy, and stretched thin
Nothing is “wrong,” but something feels off
You’ve caught yourself saying “we’re fine” more than you’d like
You don’t want distance to become the default
You’d rather pay attention early than clean up later
🔍 WHAT YOU’LL GET
Inside this guide, you’ll understand:
- Why busy is more dangerous than conflict
- How parallel lives slowly replace intimacy
- The small shifts that signal emotional distance
- Why boredom isn’t a midlife crisis — it’s a warning
- How to choose back in without blowing up your life
No journaling.
No therapy language.
No blame.
Hi, I'm Amy-
a Gen-X wife, mom, and grandma who understands long-term marriage and the empty-nest transition — and how quietly things can drift if no one’s paying attention.
You Don’t Need a Crisis to Course-Correct.
Most couples wait until something breaks to pay attention. This guide is for the ones who don’t want to get there. If you’ve felt the distance — even a little — now is the time to notice it.
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